I AM
My Incredibly Loving Document
My Internal Commitment,
My Personal Declaration, and
My Manifesto
Note: This is the most important document in my life. Please read it about yourself. If any words don’t resonate, feel free to replace them with ones that do — words that align with your beliefs and values. Use this as an invitation to explore what’s already true about you.
You are the eternal love. You are the divine light. And you are the ultimate strength.
You are powerful beyond measure.
You are the divine being connected to God.
You are pure, unending, unconditional love.
You are that everything is either a call for love or an expression of love.
You are speaking the truth – but only always.
You are your word — to yourself and others. And you are also a human, and you choose to clean up.
You are instant action and you are acting out of courage.
You are that what others think about you is none of your business.
You always choose love, kindness, and compassion.
You are incredibly loving, patient, present, and kind – especially to your beloved wife M. and daughter K.
You are the best husband, lover, and partner to your wonderful, beautiful, sexy, and wise wife M. – the love of your life.
You are the best father to your incredibly intelligent, gifted, and caring daughter K. – the gift of your life.
You are compassionate forgiveness for yourself, all beings, and all life.
You are the radical acceptance – including life perfection and divine timing.
You are that everything is unfolding exactly as it should.
You are allowing life to go through you – all of it – with grace, trust, and gratitude.
You are simplicity and ease. You are peace and calm.
You are that slowing down is the most lucrative practice, and you have all the time in the world when you slow down.
You are that all your life is a meditation.
You are always learning. You love to learn and you devour libraries for breakfast.
You are that life is beautiful and is designed for learning, growth, and discovering what you love.
You are the true master.
You are the best at your craft and you keep getting better.
You are a masterful listener. Nobody in the entire world is able to listen like you.
You are the impact, you are the drive.
You are a powerful creator.
You are extraordinary in everything you do.
You are infinitely valuable.
You are the absolute embodiment of the divine conscious masculine leadership, and you lead by example.
You are pure service – from the overflow and abundance.
You are a divine instrument and a tool of God, and God – the divine, the universe – is doing the work through you.
Your practice, your presence, is a sacred space where miracles are created and lives are transformed.
You are the magical magnet for people, power, and prosperity.
You are earning more money than ever in your life — with joy and ease.
You are enough, you have enough, and you are always open for more.
You are infinite possibilities, wealth, and abundance.
You are that your life is getting better and better.
You are the joy of life.
You are the beacon of light.
You are a child of God — infinitely beautiful.
Your body is a temple for a divine being, your soul, and you are taking care of it every single day.
You are the true force of nature – the most powerful force in the universe.
You are the healthiest, strongest, and fittest you have ever been in your life.
You are the ultimate powerhouse.
You are loved, lovable, and loving — always were and always will be.
You are the divine being connected to God.
You are connected to all beings through love.
You are love.
Love is everywhere, love is everything.
You are the universe.
You are.
This is who you are, and this is who you consciously create yourself to be.
And your wonderful, beloved parents named you Alexander.
“The statements in the document manifest the highest, noblest essence of who you are. They are you at your inner core, you without baggage, you without wounds, damage, or fear. They are you without the need to impress or the struggle to be good enough. They are the you you know you are in your gut when you have moments of clarity. They are the you that soars.”
Amy Hardison. “The Ultimate Coach Concentrated”
Creating Who You Are
Who you are as a human being, moment by moment, profoundly shapes your actions, your impact, your success, and every aspect of your personal and professional life.
You hold the incredible power to choose and create who you are—how you show up, how you treat yourself and others, how you relate to the world, to life itself. This power is nothing short of extraordinary. And you’ve been using it your entire life.
The challenge?
We tend to use this power unconsciously, in ways that don’t strengthen or serve us. Over time, we accumulate stories, beliefs, and "evidence" that disconnect us from our true power. We forget what we’re capable of and who we truly are.
People who work with me learn to reclaim that power.
They learn to lead from within.
They learn to live on their terms—crafting their lives like the most beautiful piece of art.
You have this power too.
Everyone does.
The process of creating the Document and using it as the foundation of who you are is a core part of this journey. It invites you to face the unhelpful narratives, limiting beliefs, judgments, and patterns of self-sabotage that quietly hold you back.
The tricky part? We’re often unaware of how deeply these stories run — or how much they shape our behavior.
We can become aware.
We can learn to be with these stories and parts of ourselves, not push them away.
And in doing so, transform them into something deeply empowering.
We can create who we are, consciously.
And that changes everything.